Decide, act and release all FORGIVENESS

 

WHAT DOES FORGIVENESS MEAN TO YOU?

According to my own personal understanding of the meaning of forgiveness it can simply be defined as the act of letting go and forgeting the wrong thing someone did to you which made you to be angry.

In other words when someone offends you or does something that truly hurt your feelings the act of you forgiving and forgeting what the person did is called forgiveness.

IN YOUR CHILDHOOD, DO YOU REMEMBER THAT YOUR PARENTS FORGAVE YOU FOR SOME MISCHIEF? TELL US.

Truth be told in my childhood I was very stubborn and insultive and many times my parents and even my senior brothers will be receiving reports that I did insulted them in one way or the other.

So when ever my parents gets such report they will be very angry with me and even shout at me telling me that I have derailed away from all their teachings and sometimes they even punish me for it but after some time my mom will call me in and talk to me softly saying that she's sorry then I will then make her a promise that I will not insult anyone ever again after that she will give me a hug 🫂.

DO YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF A SPITEFUL PERSON?

Actually in some cases I don't consider myself to be a spiteful person because basically I am a kind of person who loves making friends and meeting new people and I do not like keeping crudge with someone I prefer living and maintaining a peaceful environment with people.

Meanwhile in some cases I can still be spiteful to someone most especially when such a person tries to mess with any of my family members because basically that's me I do not joke with my family so if anyone messes with them I become pissed.

TELL A STORY, WHERE IT WAS YOUR TURN TO ASK FOR FORGIVENESS OR ON THE CONTRARY, THEY ASKED FOR YOUR FORGIVENESS.

Normally I have wrong a lot of people in so many ways beyond imagination but the one person I've wrong and my actions got me disturb was back then when I was in college it was in the year 2020, and back then I wasn't living close to the school so I normally pay transport everyday to school.

So one day (Monday ) I didn't have transport so I missed that day's lectures so the next day (Tuesday) when I went to school the assistant class rep which was my friend her name was "Brain" she was good looking so she had complete notes of the lectures I've missed so I collected her note so as to copy them and since they were many I had to take it back home.

So the next day(Wednesday) an emergency happened and I was unable to go to school the next day so not knowing that in school the lecturer has announced a test which was to be given on Thursday, so a friend of mine called me to inform me about the test meanwhile brain on the other hand was busy calling telling me to bring her notes to her so that she can read and get prepared for the upcoming test.

So on Thursday when I got to school brain was very angry with me so I went and gave her notes to her, and I can tell that she wasn't happy with me and it disturb me greatly because I'd knew that she wasn't prepared for the test.

So in other for me to free my mind I went to her and told her that prince my friend called me to inform me about the upcoming test but I was in an emergency so that is why I couldn't bring your notes to you, I told her that I'm sorry then she told me that she's not angry but deep down I knew that she was so in other to make her feel good the test was about to start in an hour I told her that I was fully prepared for the test that she can sit with me in the test hall that I will share all my answers with her then she smiles and then immediately I saw her smile I knew that I was truly forgiven.